by Dianna Good Sky | Favorite, Get Your Mind On, Mindset
How Does Your Stinkin Thinkin Affect Your Success?
Stinkin Thinkin is today’s topic and it’s funny because I honestly did not realize that I had an issue with money. I didn’t realize the depth of how my stinking thinking, that’s what my dad calls it, how that actually affected my success until recently.
Thanks for coming over to my blog today, I want to share with you some tips that I’ve learned about my mind, about how the mind works and possibly hopefully help you understand that it is your stinkin thinkin that is really what’s preventing you from having major success.
Tune into my video below to learn more…
Can Your Stinkin Thinkin Stop You From Accomplishing Your Goals?
Did you know or do you agree that anyone can accomplish anything they want to be in this life? They can do anything they want. They really can. But somewhere along the way, things happen.
We get tripped up in life or we have to have security so we don’t want to take chances and things happen. We really do. So what I want to talk to you about first is, I’m just going to address how my dad calls it stinkin thinkin.
I’m talking about stinkin thinkin about money because it’s really been amazing, really been a huge eye opener to me. My dad used to call stinkin thinkin any kind of negative thought pattern especially if he heard it, if somebody verbalized something then he would talk to us about getting rid of that stinkin thinkin.
Now, I want to tell you about the studying that I’ve been doing under the mentor of Bob Proctor, I don’t know if you’ve heard of him from The Secret, but he has studied the mind and how the subconscious works and the conscious works. It’s really deep stuff. I don’t need to get into that in this post, but I will tell you this that the stinkin thinkin about money really affects our level of success, even when we don’t recognize that it even exists.
So then, how do we address it?
You say. I get that. Because it wasn’t until I really dug deep down and realized that I had everything in me. There’s lots of trainers out here. There’s lots of coaches out everywhere in the world. I’ve realized, I was like, “Why am not having the same of massive success as everybody else?”
I don’t know if you’ve noticed that or been in that situation where you look around you and you go, “I’ve got the same kind of skills. Why is that skillset not allowing me to have the success that other people have?” Some people call that comparititis but I really think it’s actually more of wondering because you do recognize it, because it’s probably true.
So what happened for me and I hope this helps somebody, is that when I started really thinking about why I don’t have the level of success that other people have, and again, success can be anything that you are working on. Whether it’s success of making an apple pie, whether it’s success in buying a car that you want, whether it’s a success in being a course developer, whatever it is, your success to you is what we’re talking about.
But I realized that, oh my gosh, it’s because people in my circle especially growing up and my dad back then was one of them, that there’s such a negative aura or negative connotation with people who have money.
You hear things all the time like, “Oh well, they’re rich. They don’t care about us.” So untrue.
You hear other things like, “Well, only the rich get this.” That’s not true either.
I mean, even the movie Titanic, look at how poorly the rich people were represented. So throughout history almost, the rich have been given a bad rap. So money, it’s so normal. People let it fly off their tongue nowadays. It’s so easy to say. “Well, you’ll only get good healthcare if you’re rich.”
Well, how about you do something to earn enough money to get it? You don’t have to be rich to have good healthcare.
That might piss some people off but the reality is that money is just an energy. Money is energy, that’s all it is. It comes and it goes. It’s like current. If you plug in an electric plug, you get electricity.
Money is the same way. If you do something to earn money, you get paid for it. Very, very simple. Very, very simple.
Once I realized that and realize that combined with that money is just an energy and then realized also that the words that I heard not only from my surroundings growing up but also from movies and how bad rich people were, once I realized all that, then I was able to kind of say, “You know what, money is all it is, is an energy and I should and I do deserve to get paid for the value I put out in the marketplace.”
No matter what value it is, you deserve to be paid for value in the marketplace. If you create a product, you deserve to be paid for that. If you have a skillset that you can teach others, you deserve to be paid for that. There’s just nothing wrong with it. I’m pretty passionate about it now because I have.
My mindset as far as thinking about being deserving and it’s crazy how that works but I just want to encourage you that if you are not making the kind of money that you want to make or if you are thinking that only people who are rude and nasty and make good money, I want you to examine that. I just want you to take some time and examine money and think about the stinkin thinkin.
It’s not just about money. So your success in whatever endeavor, whatever you’re endeavoring to do, your success, I want you to really think about, “What am I doing? Am I doing the right things that I need to or am I allowing negative thoughts to get in the way, that stinkin thinkin to get in the way of my success?”
If you want to bake an apple pie and apples are not in season and you don’t have a car to go to the grocery store, well, those are obstacles and all you have to do is figure out a way around them. No matter what you’re trying to succeed at is my point. You must figure out a way to get through it, okay, that’s it.
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So I hoped you are planning to change your stinkin thinkin and start having the success you deserve. Any remember…
You are awesome. You are amazing. You are beautiful. I know that, and I want you to know that about you too!
To YOUR Success,
Dianna
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by Dianna Good Sky | Get Your Mind On, Inspiration, Mindset
Kids Mindset Training Update
Hey everyone I just wanted to give a quick update on the kids mindset training. I don’t know if you saw in one of my previous posts but we started mindset training with the children and teaching them how to change their mindset, how to do goal setting, and how to really think about what they’re doing.
I heard somebody say once that if everyone was thinking and had to think before they spoke, people wouldn’t be talking, because they were referring to the notion that not a lot of people think before they speak, and they don’t think before they do things. They don’t actually really, really think. So I wanted to teach the kids how to use their mind, and how to really start thinking, how to engage their mind in order to do some, because I think it’s a really good life skill.
Check out my following video where I talking about how the kids mindset training is going.
Kids Mindset Training has really changed their Attitude and Behaviour
So Avery and Neveah, my two grandchildren that live with me, wrote down their wants and they wrote down their goals. The update that I wanted to share with you today has a lot to do with what I’m seeing outside of their goals. I’ve been kind of blown away with what I’m seeing in their attitude and their behavior.
Their attitude and behavior, has been so much more mindful and when something happens for example, we had a meltdown last night, and I tell you, I think the meltdown came from the fact that she has been mindful, so she had some memories that came up, because I took the kids out of foster care and brought them to live with me, and she had a traumatic memory last night, and so she had some moments. It was a tough hour.
But at the end of it all, she started journaling what she was thinking and feeling, and I believe that she really was able to wrap her head around some things, and again, it’s all about this mindfulness which you can certainly add in to your kids mindset training.
She was able to wrap her head around some things and just understand, and understanding is the key to freedom. So hopefully what that means is that as she proceeds in life and she moves forward, she can realize that, ‘because I’ve been trying to teach her that what happened to you does not necessarily mean, it doesn’t have to drive your whole future, right?
I really felt compelled to share this today because the difference in their attitude and their behavior, has been remarkable.
Kids Mindset Training is a Gift Worth Giving
So think about this, think about teaching your kids mindfulness and mindset training. Think about goal setting. Think about teaching them that they can accomplish anything that they want in their life, no matter how old they are.
What a beautiful gift that is.
- Were you taught that when you were younger?
- Were you taught that?
- Your parents said all the time, you can be anything you want, but did they hold through to that promise by supporting you 100%?
I felt it was really important to show you that these kids are doing great. We are going to continue on with this and we are making some decisions. We’re making some progress.
I’m seeing some outer effects besides just the goals that have been a beautiful progress, and I’m thinking about having them do their own kids mindset challenge, because I’m thinking that with the results that I’m seeing, that they could help other kids become their best self and teach them how to stay in that practice for their lifetime. What a beautiful gift that would be.
So let me know if you’re interested in doing the same type of thing with your children or grandchildren, because I’m thinking other kids might like it too. I’m thinking other parents might like to have that. So just kind of rolling around in that thought.
Check out some of the other articles and videos on my blog if you want more information, I do a lot of mindset training. I love the mind. The mind is the most amazing thing that we have, and I want to make sure that I help people get into their best mind!
So I hope you enjoyed this update on the kids mindset training and remember…
You are awesome. You are amazing. You are beautiful. I know that, and I want you to know that about you too!
To YOUR Success,
Dianna
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by Dianna Good Sky | Get Your Mind On, Inspiration, Mindset
Dreams – Can You Make Them Your Reality?
In this post I want to talk to you about dreams. Have you let go of your dreams? Have your dreams really come true? Have you moved into them or have you put them on the back burner?
These are all the questions we are going to discuss today.
We’re going to also talk about whether you have accomplished everything you set out to do?
When you were a little kid and you wanted to be a firefighter or a doctor, did you accomplish that, whatever it is? Well, I want to talk to you a little bit about dreams, and what I have found is that a lot of people let go of their dreams.
You Can Accomplish Your Dreams
I think that the ability to accomplish whatever it is we set out to do has a lot to do with our environment, a lot to do with the kind of encouragement that we either did or didn’t get growing up, and I was scrolling through my Facebook news feed yesterday, and a friend of mine, Leah, she’s actually in Paris I think right now, somewhere in France, I met her a few years ago. She’s a fabulous young lady, and she recommended this question or this book, and I’m sorry I don’t remember the name of the person that she was referring to, but I will tell you that I did write down the questions and it really caused me to stop and ask these questions for myself. They can be very powerful, so I’m going to actually ask you them.
If you were on your deathbed, and you had to answer these three questions. Imagine you’re at the end of your life, you’re at the very end of your life, okay? And these are the questions that you ask yourself. And I really want you to get into this, because the ability to answer these questions honestly is the ability to really take a look at what are you doing, and that you are on track, okay?
So what did you love? You’re on your deathbed, and you have the chance to answer these questions. The first one is what did you love? What did you love?
The second question is do you have any regrets? Do you have any regrets?
And then the third question is, if you were given one more chance at living, what would you do?
Now, spending your time sitting in these questions can really force you to say to yourself, “Am I living the way that I want to live?”
Am I living the way that I want to live? Am I following through with what I intended to do in my life?
So again, let me recap these questions real quick. What did you love? Do you have any regrets? If you were given one more chance at living, what would you do?
Now, answer them honestly and sit in them and feel this. You’re at your deathbed and you have to answer these questions.
What does it feel like? If you can examine yourself and really be truthful and honest, and take the time to do this, it really, really can be powerful. So I hope that you do take the time, feel free, and if you did accomplish your dream, more power to you.
Yay, I’m so happy for you!
But if you’re not exactly on track, spending time in this might give you a little bit of redirection, and getting that redirection, and getting the confidence to follow through with that, I think that’s fabulous.
So if you want any help with that, or if you want to discuss how do you accomplish your dreams, send me a message. I have a way, and I can help you.
Thank you so much for coming over to my blog today. Feel free to share this post and feel free to subscribe by opting in to my freebie in the sidebar and remember to starting living your dreams!
You are awesome. You are amazing. You are beautiful. I know that, and I want you to know that about you too!
To YOUR Success,
Dianna
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by Dianna Good Sky | Get Your Mind On, Mindset
So what do you want in life – Do you have it figured out?
How are you on this what looks to be a beautiful Memorial Day? Remember the fallen. I am a vet. I appreciate when you say thank you. I really do. Memorial Day is a day of remembrance. Okay, so that’s my little tip for today. My morning mojo.
You know I was listening to a recording of a seminar done actually quite a few years ago. And the person running the seminar had a really good point. And he talked about, when most people really think about what they want in life, they don’t really want to be wealthy. They really want to be worry free.
They don’t want to, and I don’t know where you are in this category. I think that sometimes when we’re younger, especially, it’s easy to say, “Oh, I want to be a millionaire.” Not really knowing what that means. Because I think with great wealth comes great responsibility.
But you know, the notion that he had about living a worry free life. You know, if your car breaks down, not worrying about whether you can fix it, or buy a new one. If your grandchildren need braces, not worrying about if you can help them out and pay for them if your children can’t, or whatever it is that you feel like contributing.
And so really, that struck home with me, and I thought, that struck a chord with me, and I thought, you know, that’s a conversation to have. Because what if, then, instead of people promising wealth in whatever they’re doing, what if we talked about less worry?
Watch the following video to find out my take on this topic…
The ability to have more freedom is key
The ability to have more freedom. Freedom in time and freedom in money. And I think that’s the key. So when you wonder about, you know, where do you want to go in your life, is it that you want to be multi-billionaire? Or is it that I want to make sure I have freedom of choice? And I really like that one. I like not worrying about anything and I like having freedom of choice. So and I think that that’s admirable.
And also, there’s nothing wrong with money. Don’t get me wrong. But because if you look at the majority of people in the world, 80% of them or more are basically just doing what they think they have to do. And it’s because they’re trying to pay their bills and they’re trying to just get their things taken care of.
They’re trying to not worry. You know? So that’s just a little thought for the day. And I wanted to, I labeled it “morning mojo” because it’s in the morning, and I don’t usually do these videos in the morning, but I wanted to tell you that.
You know, there’s a way to get exactly what you want. Anything that you want in your life, whatever that want is.
You can get results by taking certain, by making certain changes, by creating certain habits. And I just want to encourage you that whatever it is that you want, whether that’s wealth or worry free, I want to encourage you to just go after it. It really and truly can be done, whatever it is, I just want you to know you can do it.
Make a decision, do some research, shoot, look on YouTube, contact me, whatever. But I just want to encourage you to go after exactly what it is. I don’t know your “it”. I don’t know what your “that” is. But I do know that we all owe it to ourselves to become the absolute best that we can be.
So I want you to do that. Just because I want you to do that. Because you should. You should. You were given amazing gifts. And I just want you to live in them. We all should live in purpose.
You are awesome. You are amazing. You are beautiful. I know that, and I want you to know that about you too!
To YOUR Success,
Dianna
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Have you unleashed your inner game?
I just saw an article that said something about unleash … I don’t even know. Something about your inner game. And I just thought, what is inner game anyway?
And then I read it, because it was a little intriguing. I want to talk to you a little bit about what it means to me when I hear somebody say inner game. What it means and how to get into the inner game. How to release that inner game inside of you. I thought it was an important topic to talk to you about todayand how you can get to your inner game.
But first, let’s talk about what that means.
In the article she mentioned a couple of things that I totally agree with. She mentioned self sabotage and procrastination. And how these two factors can really affect your ability to get into your inner game and to really figure out how to accomplish everything that you want to accomplish in your life. That is was I believe is what your inner game is, what do you really want in life. And it doesn’t matter what you really want. What matters is, are you going for it?
Let’s have a conversation about procrastination.
I believe that procrastination is rampant anytime that we’re a little bit fearful or we’re not exactly sure that we’re going in the direction that we want to. Or maybe we really think that we want to go toward something, but we’re not exactly sure how it’s going to work out. That make us a little worried. It makes us a little afraid.
One of my mentors, Bob Proctor, calls that the terror barrier. And this particular article talked about procrastination being that it’s a self sabotaging method of procrastinating. And I get that. I agree with that completely. Have you ever noticed Nike commercials, they say just do it. The reason that appeals to us is because it give us a little bit of oomph that, yeah, I can just do it. I can just do it. I can just do it.
The other piece of it is confidence.
And how do you build confidence?
In order to get past the procrastination and just do it, you have to have the confidence in knowing that you can do it. The only way to do that is to take the actual action. It sounds like a vicious cycle, but really it’s not. Really it’s a matter of, are you willing to do what you need to do to get whatever it is that you want to get?
And are you able to perform the functions?
If something comes up and you have to kind of say to yourself, alright, well, I m able to get this done. I may not have done it before, but I’m willing to learn and I’m willing to do it. Then that knowledge actually helps you get into the groove that, alright, I can do it. It helps you get past your comfort zone. It helps you actually take the steps necessary and be like Nike, and just do it.
Those things have to happen in order to get inside your inner game.
You have to be able to believe in yourself that you can do it. And the only way that you can get to that belief is by actually taking the action that allows you to say, hey, you know what, I did it. Whatever it is. Whatever your trying to pursue. Phone calls, talking to a stranger about your product, talking to somebody about your program, anything. Taking the job application for your dream job and filling it out.
Is taking action the key to finding your inner game?
Taking action is the key that helps build the confidence that helps build a faith that helps you not sabotage yourself and helps you get rid of the procrastination, because you know you can do it. That’s all these actions that help release your inner game or really in my words I’d rather say:
your greatness inside of you, your awesomeness inside of you. That’s what it really takes.
I just want to wish you to the very end!
Because you know you are awesome. You are amazing. You are beautiful. I know that, and I want you to know that about you too!
To YOUR Success,
Dianna
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