Talking Self Confidence
Self Confidence and how I can help you
In this post today I want to do a complete talk right now about self confidence.
You know, I used to be super shy, and now, here I am on live video talking to lots of people, and how did that happen?
Well, if this is the first time you have visited my blog, my name is Dianna Good Sky, and I’d like to share a program with you today about something that I’ve learned. Honestly, it took me a lot of years to learn this, but there was a time that I used to be super shy, as a matter of fact, so shy that if I was alone and I needed something to eat, I wouldn’t go through the drive-through at a fast food by myself because I was worried that the workers would see that I was by myself and going to have to eat alone. That’s how shy I used to be.
And as a matter of fact, I could barely speak my opinion, no matter who it was I was speaking to, no matter what condition … Not what condition, what location I was at, I just couldn’t speak my mind. And even in 7th grade, this was a long time of shyness, I passed out in the 7th grade reading a five line poem to my classmates, literally passed out.
So, being shy for me, it was just always something that I was. My mom was super shy too, a lot of it I think was genetics, and a lot of it was just our environment, I think that I was just really super shy, and quiet, can you believe that? I was super quiet. No one who knows me now would say that they would guess that.
Listen to my video about how I built my self confidence…
How to gain Self Confidence
But how did I overcome this? Honestly, I said it took me a lot of years, and I overcame it because one day, I realized that I would not be able to really get what I wanted out of life, and I was really small thinking at the time, I was in the military and I had a certain … I was up for sale of the quarter board, and I didn’t win, even though I knew my work was outstanding. I gathered up the nerve, the gumption to ask one of the chiefs in the board and said, “Can you tell me why I didn’t win?”
Let me tell you, that took a lot, I had to work up to that, oh my gosh, I had to do so much self talk to just get to the point of being able to ask that chief; He was a senior chief actually; why I didn’t win the sale of the quarter, ’cause I just knew my work was outstanding.
And he told me, he said, “No one knew who you were. We all know who you are in operations, but no one else knows who you are in the other departments.” And that was when I said, oh my gosh, if I want to attain certain like sale of the quarter, and I knew that would be good for advancement and promotion, if I wanted to get to a certain point, I would need to step out of my comfort zone, start talking to more people and get myself known.
That was the start of my journey to getting more self confidence and stepping away from my shyness, and I did a lot of self talk, and like I said, it took years. But now, where I’m at now is I have learned so much about how to accomplish goals a lot quicker with more than self talk, and a lot quicker.
So, did you know that studies have shown that to develop new habits and therefore those habits that you can reach goals with, it takes between 20 and 60 days or something like that? So if you can develop new habits, you don’t have to take years to get out of your shyness, or you don’t have to take years to get to attain a new self confidence, you can absolutely with these steps that I’m going to give you in this new confidence course, you can have this self confidence in a much shorter amount of time.
I repeat, it took me years, and I still am very shy, I still am very shy. I will go to an event, and I kind of freak out, I don’t do well in a large setting, but I can, I can force myself to do it if I know that I have to do it, like go talk to somebody.
But ordinarily, you will find me still pretty quiet and standing in the corner, until I realize that in order to be able to meet new people and help others, that that’s what I need to do is get out and talk to them. But here’s what I have, I can help you gain self confidence with this short course.
Self Confidence Course to help you
My new short course, (the audio is less than 30 minutes long) there are some homework assignments for those of you that really want to understand the why’s and the wherefore’s, but doing the homework assignments will only get you through the process quicker and help set you up with a more solid foundation for how to build the self confidence.
And then once we’re done with that, then I have a planner that you can take with you and you can watch what happens over time with the assignments that are in this self confidence course.
Now, what is that worth? I have no idea. What I do know is that I’m closing the doors on the self confidence course on the Bold Confidence Club very soon, because I’ve opened it up just for a short time for some beta testers, I want to make sure that it’s very good, very clean, and work out all the glitches.
So, I’m closing these doors very soon, if you really want in or if you know anybody that might want to increase their self confidence, or even to develop a new habit of increasing self love and their self image, hit the share button and share it out to your friends and let them sign up while the doors are still open.
So, I just want to encourage you to sign up, this course is short, impact, and can be life changing if you let it, if you let it.
So, join the www.boldconfidenceclub.com right now, and we will see you on the other side. I welcome you and we will have a separate group, I’ll be doing Q and A’s inside that group, you’ll get direct access to me during this course.
But, I’m super excited for it, because if I would have had this when I was 20, imagine where I would have been, imagine what could have been accomplished.
So, share it out, subscribe to the broadcast. And even if you do have a good amount of self confidence, even if you’re not shy, come on in and play along in the club, because you might just learn something.
Thank you again for reading this post and watch my video and if you want more self confidence simply sign up to my new course HERE right now!
You are awesome. You are amazing. You are beautiful. I know that, and I want you to know that about you too!
To YOUR Success,
Dianna
Email: Dianna@DiannaGoodSky.com
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